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Guides

Good advice, explanations and answers to what we get asked most often.

What is BDSM? Terms, roles and safety for beginners

BDSM is an umbrella term for play with power, sensation and control. Here are the key terms, the roles and the three rules that keep the play safe.

GFE stands for girlfriend experience — a warm, intimate atmosphere with kissing, conversation and presence rather than a fixed programme.

Escort and erotic massage overlap, but they are different experiences. Here is how they differ in content, price and atmosphere.

Tantra massage is slow, breath-based and about spreading pleasure through the whole body — not about reaching a finish as fast as possible.

Incall means you visit the advertiser; outcall means she comes to you. Here is what each involves and what to think about before you book.

Ads are full of abbreviations. This glossary explains the most common ones so you know exactly what a profile is offering.

Prices vary with time, place and content. Here are typical ranges for escort and massage in Denmark, and what makes the price go up or down.

Power play is built on negotiation. Here is how limits, safewords and aftercare turn dominance and submission into something both parties enjoy.

Most meetings go smoothly. The few that don't usually share the same warning signs. Here is how to spot them and how to protect your privacy.

Not every Thai massage is erotic, and not every erotic massage is Thai. Here is how to read the ad and choose the right one.