Escort glossary: 40 terms and abbreviations explained

Escort ads use a shorthand that has grown up over decades. Here are the terms you will actually meet on Danish profiles, in plain language.

Experience types

GFE

Girlfriend experience — warm, intimate, with kissing and conversation. Read the full guide.

PSE

Pornstar experience — more intense and explicit.

Duo

Two advertisers together, booked as a pair.

Touring

The advertiser is visiting a city for a limited period — check the dates on the profile.

Dinner date / overnight

Longer bookings covering an evening or a whole night.

Oral and finish

OWO

Oral without a condom. Listed as "Blowjob without condom" — offered only at the advertiser's own choice.

CIM / COB / COF

Cum in mouth, on body, on face. Always agreed in advance.

Deep throat

Deep oral sex.

69

Mutual oral sex at the same time.

Massage terms

Happy ending

A massage that ends with manual stimulation to orgasm.

Body-to-body / nuru

The masseuse uses her whole body; nuru is done on a mattress with a special gel.

Lingam / yoni

Intimate massage of the penis / vulva, usually within tantra.

Four-hand

Two therapists at once.

Kink and BDSM

Dom / sub / switch

Dominant, submissive, or both. See the BDSM guide.

CBT

Genital play within a dominance setting, always within agreed limits.

Golden shower

Urine play, giving or receiving.

Pegging

The advertiser penetrates the partner anally with a strap-on.

Edging / tease and denial

Being kept close to orgasm without release.

Practical terms

Incall / outcall

At her place / at yours. Full explanation here.

Real / verified

The advertiser has proven her identity to the platform; photos are genuine.

Payment in advance

A deposit may be required for outcalls.

Discreet address

No signage; neighbours are unaware.